Anonymous asked:

My girlfriend and i broke up recently. She started to date one of her friends and it looks as if she's happier. In my head i'm glad that we broke up but deep down i'm sad that she moved on. All of my friends are telling me to move on but something tells me if i move on i'll regret it. Whenever i look at them, i get fueled by jealous and it just ruins my day. What makes it even worse is that she cheated on my while we were dating yet i still forgave her. How do i get over her?

ayomxmuzix answered:

Consciously remove every bit of her existence from your environment. Get rid of everything that reminds you or her. Stop going to the same places (if possible).

Most importantly stop romanticizing your image of her. She doesn’t respect you, she doesn’t want to be with you, and she abandoned you like a toy she grew out of. Honestly, the way I get over exs is I hate them. Especially in the manner your girl treated you, you should hate her. She cheated on you while you were together meaning she didn’t even give a fuck if she hurt you. How can you care about someone who doesn’t care about you? That’s like giving a hug to someone who punched you in the face. Burn that image of the girl you cared about and remember the girl who hurt you.

You deserve someone who cares about you as much as you care about them. Someone who won’t intentionally hurt you. Someone whose happiness is you.